Why We Shout When In Anger ..!!?? Öfkelenince neden bağırırız…!!??

9 May

Heart Wisdom.

YA BAKİ ENTEL BAKİ

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A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled and asked.

‘Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?’

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout.’

‘But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.’ asked the saint

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained, .

‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other…

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2 Responses to “Why We Shout When In Anger ..!!?? Öfkelenince neden bağırırız…!!??”

  1. sheldonk2014 May 9, 2015 at 12:59 pm #

    We shout because we can’t visualize in our minds what someone is doing as far as their actions or their way of thinking
    So your immediate reaction is to shout
    It’s almost a defense mechanism because you are feeling that your beliefs are being challenged
    It turns into an argument rather then a discussion

  2. dancingpalmtrees May 9, 2015 at 11:31 pm #

    Yes Sheldon. Sad but true. People who resort to shouting are on the defensive and believe loud voices makes their argument stronger. At least in some cases. Thanks for your comment.

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